Admitedly I've never tried AIM.
And I am making no assumptions; the following post is just to go through any possible problems.
-Do you have the latest
AIM
-Does your son have the latest
Apple iChat AV
-You (as in you, the Windows XP User) will need an updated component, to upgrade do the following:
1. First, completely sign out of AIM and any other programs running on your computer.
2.
Dowload the file
3. Then open this program
4. Then Install the program
5. Then restart your computer
- Do you have the firewall to open ports 1024 and 5000 (everywhere possible, i.e. on the router [if you are using one] and both systems)
(source:
AIM Today)